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It’s a Dog’s Life: Elevating Status from
Pet to “Fur Baby” at Yappy Hour
Jessica Greenebaum
ABSTRACT
Nonhuman animals always have played a significant role in
people’s lives. Lately, the technological and market economy has
anthropomorphized dogs to human-like behavior, particularly to
status of family member or child. This qualitative study expands
upon the current studies on consumption and animals and society
by exploring how human-canine relationships are
anthropomorphized at the family excursion to “Yappy Hour” at
Fido’s Barkery. The type of person who attends Yappy Hour on a
weekly basis has a unique and special type of connection with
their dog that goes beyond most people’s relationships with
dogs. Most of the dog lovers interviewed do not perceive their
dogs as dogs; they are family members, best friends, and “fur
babies.” These dog lovers also do not perceive themselves as dog
owners; they see themselves as mothers and fathers. The social
and market environment of Fido’s Barkery not only reinforces
their relationship with their dog, it shapes community,
friendships, and personal identity.
Only dog lovers can understand. Nestled in the suburbs of
Hartford, Connecticut lies Fido’s Barkery, a bakery that sells
treats that look good enough for humans to eat, but are for
dogs. When people come into the store for the first time, they
smile and marvel at the amusing concept. After all, a dog bakery
is not located on every street corner. Anyone who likes animals
cannot help but be happy in a store devoted to dogs. The first
thing one notices when entering the store is the pastry cases
full of treats, freshly baked and dipped on the premises,
reminiscent of a European pastry shop. Many pet stores have
“biscuit bars” filled with bulk dry cookies, but they cannot
compare with the fresh and refrigerated pastries at the bakery.
One case is full of dry cookies and the other case consists of
refrigerated gourmet cakes and pastries. All the cookies, cakes,
and pastries are made with natural, wholesome ingredients
without the use of sugar, salt, animal fats, or artificial
preservatives. Most of the cookies are dipped in carob (a
chocolate substitute) or peanut butter. The cakes are topped
with buttermilk-yogurt frosting mixed with peanut butter or
carob. The treats look so delicious, that many first-time
customers cannot believe the treats are made for dogs, rather
than humans. Nothing is too indulgent for these pampered pets,
including the high quality toys, collars, beds, and bowls that
also sell for premium prices. Anita, a counselor in her early
50s and an owner of four Japanese Chins, talks about the
reaction she had the first time she walked into the store:
I couldn’t believe it. I really could not believe it. The first
thing I saw was the counter full of these delectable looking
treats and that they were actually made for dogs. And I thought
it was just hilarious and really wonderful. Being a dog lover,
you figure, hell, they deserve it, why not?
Between 6 and 8 o’clock on Thursday nights, these dog lovers are
at “Yappy Hour” with their best friends and fur babies. Yappy
Hour is a social hour for dogs and their human companions. When
the door closes, the leashes come off and the games begin. The
dogs run back and forth from the front to the back of the store.
The front of the store is where the dogs play and get attention
from people. The back of the store is where the dogs get cake
and the humans get wine or soda from Frank, the owner and “barktender.”
Shelly and Richard, caretakers of two Wheaton Terriers, are in
their mid 50s and are partners in an advertising and public
relations firm. Due to their careers, they can really appreciate
the unique and funny concept of Yappy Hour and a bakery for
dogs. Shelly states, “the concept is something that could really
appeal to people who want to demonstrate their relationship with
their dog and their willingness to do anything, like buy special
food.”
This study expands upon the current studies on animals and
society. It explores how the regular customers of Yappy Hour
anthropomorphize their relationship with their dogs by engaging
in this family outing. Thursday night Yappy Hours become a
leisure-time activity that elevates dogs into the family
structure. The type of person who attends Yappy Hour on a weekly
basis has a unique and special type of connection with their
dog. Most of the dog lovers interviewed do not perceive their
dogs as dogs; they are family members, best friends, and fur
babies. These dog lovers also do not perceive themselves as dog
owners; they are parents.
In addition, the social self is constructed through the
presentation of self at Yappy Hour. According to Goffman (1959),
individuals work to create an image of themselves. This
performance can involve a team of actors “whose intimate
co-operation is required if a given projected definition of the
situation is to be maintained” (Goffman, p.104). Sanders (1993)
and Twining, Arluke, and Patronek (2000) studied how human and
non-human animals work as teams to manage stigma of bad behavior
and breed stereotypes.
Attending Yappy Hour is one form of impression management where
regulars can distinguish themselves from the typical dog owner
and reinforce their standing as “parents” (Goffman, 1959).
Through this activity, the dog and dog owners become a team in
constructing an image of a family. Similar to the image of
soccer moms who drive their kids to games and social events,
these parents take their fur babies to a weekly activity where
they can play. The parents socialize with each other while
encouraging their fur babies to play nicely. Just as children
tend to have personalities similar to their parents, these fur
babies also reflect the personalities of the parents. As a
result, the dog becomes an extension and reflection of the self.
Not only are the dogs elevated to the status of children, but
the dogs also elevate the status of dog owners to parents. The
dog becomes anthropomorphized through this leisure activity that
promotes family life.
Literature Review
Research on animals and society has been conducted for the past
20 years, including work on the role of pets in the lives of the
elderly (Franks & Hart, 1993; Sanders, 1993; Siegel, 1993), the
bereavement process following the death of a pet (Archer &
Winchester, 1985), understanding the thought process of pet dogs
(Sanders), and the role of pets in promoting social interaction
among strangers in dog parks (Robins, Sanders, & Cahill, 1991;
Wolch & Rowe, 1992). In addition, there also has been a lot of
research on the social significance of pets in the lives of
their human companions, particularly how they have become
anthropomorphized into family members and surrogate children
(Albert & Bulcroft, 1988; Belk, 1996; Belk, 1998; Cain, 1985;
Gillespie, Leffler, & Lerner, 2002; Hirschman, 1994; Sanders,
1999; Veevers, 1985).
Veevers’ (1985) study on companion animals focused on the three
functions of pets:
1. the projective, or the “symbiotic extension of self,” in
which the dog and the treatment of the dog reflect upon the
human self;
2. the sociability, in which the dog plays a role in inviting or
preventing interaction with others; and
3. the surrogate, which allows individuals to pamper their
animal like a child.
Buying gourmet treats and accessories are ways for humans to
pamper their pets and for individuals to pamper themselves. If,
as Veevers (1985) claims, animals function to reflect the
symbiotic extension of the self, to function as a surrogate
loved one, and to function as a means of interaction with
others, then the ability for animals and humans to play out
their roles as family members will be enhanced by leisure time
activities.
Shopping is a leisure activity that shapes family life and
identity (Allen, 1999; Belk, 1988; Crawford, 1992; De Vault,
2000; Hirschman & Holbrook 1982; Holbrook & Hirschman, 1982;
Lury, 1996; Murphy, 2000). Today, increasing numbers of people
are shopping for their animals as a means of constructing pets
as family members (Belk, 1988; Hirschman, 1994). However, there
has been a lack of research on how the technological and market
economy has anthropomorphized dogs and other pets to human-like
behavior, particularly to the status of family member or child.
The marketplace has responded to this change by producing luxury
goods for people to lavish on their pets. While companies filled
the gap in the marketplace, they simultaneously created new
needs for consumption as a way for individuals to express love
for their pets. Today, consumers can watch television channels
devoted to animals, send their dog to a pet psychic, bring their
dog to doggie daycare, or hire a dog walker so the family pooch
does not have to be alone while the family is away. Consumers
also can buy treats for their fur baby and attend a social
gathering at Yappy Hour.
In 2003, annual pet spending was expected to reach $31 billion,
according to the American Pet Product Manufacturers Association
(2003). Although the majority of the money is spent on
veterinary care, other major expenses in American pet households
are for food and supplies. The change in marketplace highlights
the transforming role of animals in our society. In a consumer
society, people show affection and care through the consumption
of goods for family members, particularly children. This
research suggests that dogs have become child substitutes,
particularly for young adults in their late 20s and early 30s
and empty nesters. For the childless young couple or single
adult, the dog becomes a trial for parenthood, in which they can
experiment with the idea of becoming parents. For the single or
married empty nester, the dog is treated as a child or, perhaps,
a spoiled child-grandchild. Both groups have extra time to spend
on family outings with their dogs and have spare income to spend
on their dogs.
Research Methodology
The first time I entered Fido’s Barkery I fell in love with
Goliath, the store dog. This Giant Schnauzer, whom I call the
“gentle giant,” greeted me by lying on the floor and demanding a
belly rub. At the time, I did not have a dog and I adopted
Goliath as my own. I would visit him on a weekly basis and buy
him a treat. I decided to work part-time at the dog bakery,
partially to supplement my professor’s salary, partially to do
research, but mostly because I love dogs and believe in the
store’s concept. For the past two years, I have had my best
friend and “fur baby,” Thurston, an 11-pound Boston terrier (or
the “Boston Terror,” as the store affectionately calls him),
working by my side. Goliath’s and Thurston’s jobs as “tasters”
and “greeters” make them much more than your average dog--they
become human-like in status.
Watching the dogs play is fun and entertaining, but after
working at Yappy Hour for a couple of months, I realized that
this is a sociological study. I conducted 11 interviews with 16
people who regularly attend Yappy Hour. I also had numerous
discussions with Frank, the owner of Fido’s Barkery. I used a
reference guide of questions to help focus the interviews; yet,
all the interviewees had the opportunity to discuss issues that
I may not have addressed. I tape-recorded and transcribed all
the interviews and developed a system for coding during and
after data collection.
I interviewed eight married couples, one divorced man, and two
single women who each are in long-term relationships. All the
people interviewed are white and heterosexual. Three of the
couples have adult children. The ages range from 23 to 51,
during or after prime childrearing years. This is significant
because empty nesters and young couples without children tend to
treat their pets as surrogate children (Albert & Bulcroft, 1988;
Hirschman, 1994). One person has a working-class vocation,
another has a lower-middle class job, and the rest are in
professional or business fields. Confidentiality has been
assured, and all human names and dogs’ names have been changed,
although I received permission from the individuals to identify
the breeds of their dogs. Of the 20 dogs included in the study,
all but three were pure-breeds. Because pure-breed dogs are
expensive, usually only members of the middle to upper-middle
class can afford them. That most of these dogs are pure-breeds
is also important because these parents spent the time and money
to find a breed that easily would become an extension of the
self. Finally, it is significant to report that the middle class
has historically used the domesticated pet as a status symbol or
child surrogate (Phineas, 1974; Sanders, 1999).
Becoming Fur Babies
The animal lovers who attend Yappy Hour on a regular basis
perceive their dogs as more than mere pets; they are integrated
family members who are treated like children. Carol, a
mechanical engineer in her 40s and a caretaker of two
mixed-breeds says:
I think that the type of person who goes to Yappy Hour thinks of
the dog as an entity with attitude, needs, personality,
thoughts, and they think enough of the dog and the dog’s
position in their pack/family that they want to [go to Yappy
Hour].
Jackie, who works in sales and is in her late 20s, is an owner
of a Japanese Chin. She also distinguishes between people who go
to Yappy Hour and people who do not.
I don’t think people love their pets any less that don’t go. But
it’s almost [as if Yappy Hour people] take time out for their
pets. Other people may go to a park with their dog. I think
people who take time out to have a set routine or something
that’s just specifically for their dog are different than people
who think, I’m going to take the dog out for a walk and that’s
their only interaction they’ve had outside.
Because friends and family often make fun of the people who
attend Yappy Hour, Anita suggests that the people who attend on
a weekly basis are “making a statement about their values.”
These dog lovers make special accommodations for their dogs
because they do not see their dogs merely as pets but as family
members. For many of these people, the dogs are so integrated
into the family that they take on the role of “fur babies,”
including one couple who has incorporated their dogs into their
will. Sarah, a part-time employee at Fido’s Barkery, is in her
mid 20s and has two Airedales and a Silky Terrier. She explains
this unusual situation:
You know they are in our will. They have a legacy. If something
happens to us they will be provided for. Its not like we’ll put
them up in a penthouse, but I certainly hate for something to
happen to Steve [her husband, an M.D.] and then they’d have to
go to a shelter. So we have talked to certain people about
taking them in. And I would not want someone to not take them
because of a financial burden. So we have allowed a certain
amount to be given to their care….That’s why they’re fur babies.
That’s how we think about them.
And Sarah believes that most of the individuals who go to Yappy
Hour also see their dogs as family members or fur babies:
I think it’s a sliding scale sort of thing. There are certainly
people there that are as neurotic as I am, who get their dogs
everything. They are fur babies and that’s the end of the story.
I do think there are people who come to Yappy Hour who are less
extreme in the levels that the dog enters as a family member
versus as a pet. But yeah, I certainly think that anyone who
comes to Yappy Hour is more on the side that it’s a family
member than a pet
Dawn, a law student in her early 20s, gets upset when people
insist that her Pugs are just dogs. Her Pugs are her babies,
and, as such, she has a baby stroller for them when she travels
to New York City. Beck (1996) and Tuan (1984) argue that
parading one’s dog in a baby stroller can be perceived as
objectifying animals and using them as a toy; but, in this case,
the dog is being protected from being stepped on and is,
therefore, being treated like a child.
The perception of their dogs as children is enhanced by the
notion that these dog lovers feel like parents, not owners, of
dogs. At the time of these interviews, none of the young couples
had children, and the older couples’ children were of adult age.
By transforming the role of dog into child, Yappy Hour becomes a
family excursion that enables humans to play the role of
parents.
Dave, a business executive in his late 20s with two Pugs, claims
that he and his wife, Lisa, take on stereotypically traditional
gender roles. He is the protector and playmate while she is the
nurturer and primary caregiver. He claims that the dogs take
Lisa more seriously because he doesn’t enforce the rules well.
Dawn also explains that she thinks her dog Angela perceives her
and her boyfriend as having distinct gender roles. She cuddles
and provides for the dogs on a daily basis while he is the
playmate who plays rough with the Pugs:
I think of the dogs more than he does. Everyday, when I don’t
have them, I’m like, what did you do with the dogs today? What
did you guys play with? And I don’t think he thinks of that as
much. When I come home, she cries, when she hasn’t seen me. But
when he comes home, she’s excited, but it’s not the same.
Marc, a police officer in his early 30s, agrees with Dave.
“Julie is the boss and I’m a big toy for [the dog] to play with.
I think he thinks of me as just another dog, part of the pack.”
Julie adds, “Yeah, he listens to me if I tell him no, he’ll
listen. He doesn’t listen to Marc. He’s more of a buddy to him.
While I’m more of the mother type.” In these families, the dogs
did not listen to their “fathers” as well as their “mothers.”
Since they were not home as much, their main job is to be the
playmate, the leader of the pack. As the playmate, they often
bend the rules during quality time, as with children.
Interestingly, not only are these dog lovers “doing family,”
they also are “doing gender” (West & Zimmerman, 1987). This was
particularly true for the young couples who were planning on
having children in the future. By preparing to become mothers
and fathers, they also were preparing to take on traditional
roles of women and men. As a result, these human-animal families
abide by the same set of gender expectations as traditional,
male-headed households. In this traditional household, mothers
are the primary caregivers while fathers are the mother’s
helper. The father helps out and does what is requested of him,
but the mother manages the daily household chores and activities
(Coltrane & Adams, 2001). In both traditional breadwinner
families and dual income families, the mother’s role as primary
caregiver consists of providing emotional support, preparing
meals, and managing daily activities (Coltrane & Adams,
Hochschild, 1989; Larossa, 1988). Since they are more involved
in the everyday activities of children, they often enforce the
daily household rules (however, men often get to make more major
household decisions) and are therefore relegated to the role of
disciplinarian.
However, sometimes the men are perceived as the alpha because
they are not home as often. Shelly believes that Richard’s
absence gives him an aura of importance. Bruce, a mechanical
engineer in his mid 40s, admits that the dogs respond to Carol
better on a daily basis, but as the largest male with the
deepest voice, he gets the final say in critical matters:
When we take them for walks and we meet other dogs and there’s
some sort of disagreement, if I give a loud growl or yell, all
of them listen. Our dog, their dog, it doesn’t matter. So in
that sense, I’m the alpha because I’m the biggest, strongest
male, with the deepest, loudest growl.
Picking breeds that the caretakers felt reflected their own
personalities have also anthropomorphized the dogs (Belk, 1996;
Belk, 1998; Hirschman, 1994). Because the dogs are perceived as
mirroring the parents, they are elevated to child-like status
and reinforce the phrase, “like father, like son.” Lisa and Dave
bought Pugs because they wanted dogs with “a lot of character in
a small package.” Dave, like his Pug “loves to be the center of
attention.” The desire for both of them to be in the spotlight
is probably because they both come in small packages (Dave is
5’7”). Dawn also picked Pugs because “they’re stubborn, very
dynamic, and have a lot of personality.” Pugs are a great match
for Dawn because she says, “I’m a performer and I’m used to
having a lot of attention.”
Sarah says she bought Airedales because the breed traits
compliment her own personality. Sarah states, “[Airdales] don’t
conform, they’re difficult to train, [and] they’re very
stubborn….We don’t like to conform to what other people think we
should do or say. Which I think is a terrier personality trait.”
Many of the parents of purebred dogs have noticed that their
dogs “take on” their owners’ quirky personalities. Shelly claims
that one of their Wheaton Terriers is very pensive and quirky,
much like her husband Richard.
We always say that Harry’s got a novel in the drawer that he’s
working on when we’re not home. We really feel that he’s
thinking something and he wants to say it. We always say to him,
‘will you just spit it out Harry.’
Even Goliath, the storeowner’s dog, reflects Frank’s
personality. At 105-pounds, Goliath can be very intimidating to
strangers. However, he usually is sweet and gentle, except when
he barks and breaks up a fight among the dogs at play. Ben, who
is married to Anita, attributes Goliaths’ personality to Frank’s
own gentle nature, both of whom he describes as “gentle souls.”
I’ll tell you what struck me the most. Frank. My only sense was
“what a gentle soul.” I’m so amazed by how I see the reflection
of his character in that dog. The dog is generally very quiet.
He can take care of business when he has too. Don’t mess with
him. Treat him respectfully and you’ll be all set. And that’s
kind of how I see Frank. I don’t need to have a big stick and
wave it at you, I know I can take care of myself. So I’m going
to choose to be pleasant and a good host but if you step out of
line [watch out]. I’m very fond of people like that so I
immediately was drawn to that. I don’t equate gentle with weak.
Being a gentle person doesn’t mean you are a weak person. It
means you’re prudent. When you need to take care of it, you take
care of it. But, although the dogs often reflect their
caretakers’ personalities, Anita is amazed by how, like
children, they have their own personalities. She wanted a dog
that would constantly give her attention and used to be upset
that one of her dogs is not a lap dog. But she realized that
“It’s nothing I can take personally. It’s her personality. It’s
like kids. When you have more than one you start to see that
their own idiosyncrasies are about them, not about you. They are
all different.” By interpreting their personality as childlike,
these dog lovers anthropomorphize their dogs to a human status
and view themselves as parents.
Creating Family and Community in the Marketplace
Although Fido’s Barkery tends to attract an upper-middle class
clientele, it is not uncommon to see members of all
socio-economic classes buying treats for their dogs. According
to Frank, the owner of the bakery, the customers can be broken
down into four categories. These categories often, but not
always, represent social class. The budget shopper is the type
of customer who buys treats at the bakery on special occasion,
such as a dog’s birthday or the holiday season. The budget
shopper tends to buy dog biscuits from the supermarket or chain
pet-store for either financial or practical reasons. Although
the dog, often a mixed breed, is a loved member of the family,
the dog is a dog and, therefore, does not need extravagant
goods.
The status shopper is the rare customer who buys expensive
products, such as Burberry style tote bags or the Swarovski
studded leather collars at Fido’s Barkery or other elite
department stores and specialty shops. This loved dog, usually a
purebred, is a canvas to display the status shopper’s wealth and
social status (Sanders, 1999).
The quality shoppers regularly shops at Fido’s Barkery because
they want to give their mixed breed or purebred, quality,
healthy treats. They also prefer shopping at small businesses
where they and their dog get personal attention. Finally, the
social shoppers have the same qualities as the quality shoppers
but use the bakery as a mechanism to socialize their dogs and to
gather with other dog lovers. It is the social shopper who
attends Yappy Hour on a regular basis to show others and
themselves their relationship with their dog as family member.
Although most social shoppers also can be considered quality
shoppers, these are not mutually exclusive categories. A number
of people attend Yappy Hour who--since they do not buy much for
their pets--could fall under the category of bargain shopper.
I argue that the parents in this study are quality and social
shoppers because they believe it is their responsibility to
provide a first-rate life for their fur babies. Richard
explains, “I feel very strongly that its part of our
responsibility to give the dog the best life you possibly can.
They’re completely under your power and control. It’s your
responsibility to make them have a good life.” Therefore, these
parents use the marketplace to provide their fur babies with
health, happiness, and the pursuit of pleasure.
Some things these caretakers have done to make sure their fur
babies have the best possible health includes spending thousands
of dollars providing for expensive medical care such as
chemotherapy and radiation for the mixed breed suffering from
cancer, acupuncture for the Airedale suffering from chronic
pain, and multiple visits to an opthamologist to treat a Pug’s
eye infection. Many of the caretakers are also quite concerned
for the safety of the dogs, and one couple set up an alarm
system with a smoke detector to protect the dogs when they were
away.
Although these parents recognize that this type of treatment
requires expendable time and money, they differ from status
shoppers in that their motivation is to protect and please their
companion animal. Sarah explains that although the money enables
them to act out on their desires, the sentiment still would be
there, even if they could not afford the expensive veterinary
care. She states, “It definitely would change what we do, but it
would not change the way we viewed them.” Richard claims he
would “borrow or steal or do whatever I could” to provide for
his fur babies if he did not have the money.
To insure happiness and comfort in the dog’s daily life, some of
these parents buy and rent cars to transport their dogs
comfortably. To make the driving experience even more luxurious,
small dogs can sit in booster seats, which provide both safety
and window viewing pleasure for the dog. For the dog who loves
to stick his head out of the window, you can buy doggles, which
are dog goggles to protect the dog’s eyes from UV sunrays and
debris.
Finally, these parents bring their dogs to Yappy Hour for the
pursuit of pleasure. The bakery and the individuals who attend
Yappy Hour work together to create a space for people to indulge
themselves and to treat their dogs like fur babies. According to
Sarah, “you need to afford a lifestyle to participate in it”
because going to Yappy Hour on a weekly basis is a “leisure
activity” that requires time and money.
Many of the young couples who are thinking about getting
pregnant are acutely aware of the expendable time needed to
attend Yappy Hour on a regular basis. Dave and Lisa live 20
minutes away from Fido’s Barkery and are concerned that they
will not have time to go on a weekly basis once they have a
baby. However, they claim that it would not change the desire to
go. Sarah claims that children also will not change the status
of her fur babies: “Dakota will always be our first born.”
People go to Yappy Hour as a means to provide entertainment and
socialization for their dogs. But they keep coming back week
after week because of the community fostered by Frank, the
friendships formed at Fido’s Barkery, and the desire to support
a business based on the love of dogs.
Host of the party
All Yappy Hour attendees agree that one of the main reasons why
they continue to come to Yappy Hour is due to Frank, the owner
of Fido’s Barkery. All the dogs seem to love Frank, as he is the
dispenser of dog treats during Yappy Hour. But the people love
him too, and not because he also is the barktender. Frank is a
very personable, caring man who loves dogs and his business. In
fact, he gave up a lucrative career as a Health Care
Administrator to open Fido’s Barkery. Shelly explains:
I think that Frank’s personality is a really big part of it. I
think the concept alone isn’t enough. You have to have the right
person in place. It’s a good concept, but it’s executed really,
really well by Frank. He’s a wonderful man. And then it’s the
community, which is the staff, some of whom were part of the
community and kind of migrated to the staff. There are people
who kind of come and go, but the people who come and stay are
such a nice group of people. Plus, it’s an affinity group and
that’s part of the concept.
Although the occupations, age, and interests differ among these
parents, the relationships to their dogs draw them together.
Yappy Hour becomes a social club or an in-group, in which
membership is defined and community is constructed by one’s
relationship with their dog and one’s attendance of this social
event (Newman, 1995; Sumner, 1906). It is through the dogs that
a sense of community is formed. As Wolch and Rowe (1992, p. 20)
point out in their research on dog parks, “the presence of dogs
clearly fosters social interaction between people and people
often learn the names of each other’s dog before they learn one
another’s name.”
Another reason why people love Yappy Hour is the friendships and
sense of community that has developed throughout the years the
event has been held. Yappy Hour is not just an important social
event for the dogs; it also is a fun get-together for the human
companions. Lisa, an owner of two Pugs, explains:
I know for me, Yappy Hour is just as much of a social event for
me. It’s great the dogs run around and get tired out, but I
enjoy seeing the people that I have something in common [with].
After Yappy Hour, many congregate at a local restaurant for
drinks and food, with or without the dogs. Yappy Hour is also a
time where people celebrate birthdays (both canine and human),
weddings and holidays, as well as to grieve the death or illness
of dog and human friends. The unexpected death of one of her dog
was traumatic for Shelly; however, knowing that Frank and the
others were there for her, helped her survive this heartbreaking
tragedy.
Frank was away when my dog died. I just really wanted to tell
Frank, I wanted to talk to him. And he was away and he got stuck
because of 9-11. And he didn’t get back for days. And one day I
got him on the phone and then I went in. I just wanted to stop
by and I told him and I just started crying. And he was so sweet
about it. Everybody was. The card [that everybody from Yappy
Hour signed] really helped us get through.
Because people attend Yappy Hour on a weekly basis, Mack feels
that “it’s the canine equivalent to the Cheers bar: where
everyone knows the dog’s name.” Before Anita discovered Yappy
Hour, she was looking for a forum where she could socialize with
other people who love dogs. She continues to come back week
after week for the human and canine socialization. “There’s an
affinity between people who love dogs and I really think there’s
a special type of bond.” Yappy Hour creates an in-group
membership or club (Newman, 1995; Summer, 1906), which enables
people to bond with other dog “parents,” and also validate their
parental-child relationship with their dog.
Supporting the Bakery
Quality and social shoppers buy gourmet delicacies for their fur
babies at Fido’s Barkery because they are impressed with the
wholesome treats baked on the premises. They buy exclusive goods
to show that the dog is a loved member of the family.
Furthermore, there is a feeling among the customers that people
going to Yappy Hour should make a conscious effort to support
this small business rather than buying goods at a cheaper price
from a large pet shop. Ann explains:
[If] you are in there and you are using it as a way for your dog
to play, then you should support the store that is letting you
do those things. I don’t think you have an obligation to buy
things but it’s kind of the right thing to do. There are times
when I forget my wallet or whatever, and I don’t buy something
every time, but as a general rule, if you’re going to be there
as much as we’re there, you should buy some stuff there. When
you have to get something, get it there.
Dave and Lisa buy the same assortment of treats on a weekly
basis and often buy some of the high priced specialty goods to
help support the business. “Maybe we’re paying a little more,
but it’s a quality product and we get the entertainment,” Dave
said. They feel it is important to support the business. Dave
claims,
It could just be me feeling guilty because we kind of hang out,
drink wine, so does everyone else, but does anyone ever buy
anything? No. So we’re like, we don’t want Frank to go out of
business, quick buy something.
Because it is a small business, Dave and Lisa always fear that
Fido’s Barkery might go under and their weekly supply of treats
and entertainment will be gone. In addition, Martha’s desire to
support the bakery is the result of feeling that her dogs are
actually loved and cared for by the workers. Martha believes one
does not get this type of treatment at a large chain pet store,
and this keeps her coming back on a weekly basis. So there is a
conscious effort by many of these customers to support Fido’s
Barkery emotionally, physically, and financially.
Conclusion
This research on the regulars at Yappy Hour adds to the current
research on animals and society, which calls for a closer look
at the relationships between pets and their human companions.
Although the purpose of Yappy Hour at Fido’s Barkery is to
generate business, Yappy Hour becomes a community event and a
family activity that highlights the process of
anthropomorphizing dogs into the child-like status of fur
babies. The marketplace has created a new way of thinking about
pets and has responded to the shifting relationship between
humans and dogs. There is a countless number of products to buy
for one’s fur baby. Once dog-loving consumers get used to the
idea of a bakery for dogs, it ceases to be outrageous and starts
to become an emotional and social necessity. Yappy Hour
stimulates business by creating a warm and welcoming place for
social and quality shoppers to consume. It also is a social
function that creates community and friendships.
For the most part, the dogs in this study were purebreds who
appeared to have characteristics and personalities similar to
their human companions. This encouraged the dog lovers to view
their dogs as more than just a pet, but a vital member of the
family. As family members, the dogs are elevated to the status
of children, or fur babies. By treating the dogs like children
and following traditional gender roles and expectations, the dog
owners’ status becomes elevated to parent, thus creating a form
of impression management (Goffman, 1959). As parents, they place
the needs of their dogs in the forefront of their daily lives
and use the marketplace to provide luxuries for their fur
babies.
If the merchandise consumers buy, the recreation consumers seek,
and the lifestyle consumers achieve reflects and defines them,
they are going to try to buy the best goods from the most
exclusive stores. Because the family dog is an extension of the
self for some, it makes sense that these dog lovers will buy
freshly baked dog treats, attend Yappy Hour on a regular basis,
and treat their dog like a fur baby.
Note
* Jessica Greenebaum, Central Connecticut State University
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